Sunday, February 16

baby Raynor's birth story

so all went as planned, went to gleneagles on 16/2 Sunday as little darling have not decided to give us any sign. 

reached slightly b4 8pm, yet the reception refused to admit us saying if we admit b4 8:30pm there will be another day charge, so we waited.

finally went up to my ward, and found out from nurse that we should insist on coming at 8pm as dr choo alr arranged with the nurses to start induction at 8pm. the nurse says she will complain abt the reception. lol

anyway, so started monitoring heartbeat and then those normal QnA... so...

 2130-finally inserted the first tablet. nurse says cervix soft but not open... hmmm thought dr choo says she can insert 1 finger the other time? anyway wait lo... 

2245- another nurse came took the ctg away and ask me to watch if I have contractions or discharge if not the next tablet will be inserted at 4am.

2300- no signs just feel like poo-ing but didn't manage to do so. watched tv and then rest...

0400- nurse came in put me on ctg and inserted 2nd tablet. this nurse insert slightly painful. but ok took quite long. she say she feels cervix is soft and can insert finger and feel baby's head is v low but... not dilated yet. still need to wait. seems like the little boy and mummy's cervix is taking own sweet time. 

0500- starting to feel slight contractions quite regularly but not sure is it I wanna poo... :((

0520- took ctg off, baby is active and quite abit of contractions monitored. nurse say will clear my bowels at 6am. the hubby is super sound asleep snoring away... poor him... 

0600- nurse came and insert saline water. think I really wanna poo. think 2mins after she insert I went toilet. 

0630- eat light breakfast of toast and milo. starting to feel some contractions too. 

0715- starting to feel contractions every 5mins. and the pain is starting to set in.. so this is contraction pain! :O (the hubby is snoring away still... ) nurse says May send me to delivery ward ard 8plus am. will see how... 

0830- went down to labor ward feeling quite a bit of contractions and backache.

0900- after all QnA, dr choo came. she checked and said I'm dilated ard 3cm and then she broke the water bag... oh my the gush of warm water... 

0915- epidural was given as I was to be put on drip to make dilation faster. so the dr came and gave me epidural, it's quite painful when dr inject the epidural into my spine. 

0935- was on drip and everything went painless and I'm getting sleepy. dr choo will only come n check again at 11am. so, I shall then take a nap. hopefully dilation by then would be good! 

1130- nurse came to drain out urine and also check for dilation. it's still 3cm...

1350- dr choo came and check said that although still 3cm but baby head is lower and cervix is shorter. hopefully the cervix will open up more.. 

1450- nurse change shift and new nurse came and insert a tube to drain out urine.  hoping that dilation will speed up by then. 

1500- keep telling little darling to help mummy! I really don't wanna end up having c sect! 

1650- Dr choo came by checked and unfortunately it's still 3cm and dr choo told me that I need to go for CSect as baby's head is stuck at the cervix opening and is probably too big thus my cervix cannot open further. she doesn't want me to stay in labor anymore as she said we won't progress and baby will be in stress soon. I have no choice but go c sect. at that moment I'm in self doubt, v emotional and cried. luckily hubby was there and assured me it's nv my fault for this. Dr choo also keep telling me the c sect is gonna be fine and would be the best option now. 

1700- gotten ready for c sect. pushed to OT.

1720- top up of epidural and checked that everything is ready by the nurses and dr choo keep holding my hands and tell me not to worry! glad she's so assuring! 

1740- baby raynor cried for the 1st time and Dr choo said congratulations, I tear! my darling boy is finally out! 

1745- baby was brought to me and I hugged him for the first time. the feeling was amazing! baby weigh 3.575kg. :)

1850- finally back at the ward. my parents in law came. mil teared! iyo she was worried sick. and she super xin tong that I had to go thru such hard labor. felt so loved. 

1915- baby raynor tried to latch on and clever boy can latch on so well! :) 

1930- baby tired alr don't wanna suckle anymore. so the elders came and they carried him and took pictures. while I'm busy announcing to the "whole world" the birth of my darling boy! 

2300- still on drip so no intake of food. raynor was sent back to nursery as I needed the rest badly. 

was glad everything went well in the end! hoping for a quick recovery of wound that's all! 









week #39

and so the other day went to dr choo's clinic with induced birth or not in mind.

after all checks little darling is 3.4+kg did not put on much weight.. phew! 

dr choo check my cervix and says the opening is soft but not really opened yet. induced labor shd be ok. but she foresee I may also go into labor the very week too. 

just while we were still thinking... dr choo told us she will be away for a conference from 19-23feb. 

so we decided to see if baby comes natural for this week and if not we will proceed with induced labor on Sunday night so that little darling will be out on Monday. :) 

hope everything goes on smoothly then...common darling boy show us some signs! 

Thursday, February 6

at week#38 ( 37+5weeks)

well, went for appt with Dr Choo as usual and darling boy is now at 37 weeks +5 days. 

the fatty boy almost gave us a scare when dr choo measure his weight... luckily the 2nd measurement looks alright at 3.4~kg... 

everything's well except of cos the usual pelvic pain n frequent urination at night causing me very much disturbed sleep! 

dr choo ask if I want an induction, but I guess should wait for nature call from the little one, so I decline and means I still need to further endure the pain and play the waiting game with my little boy... 

and so here's picture of the little one at 35weeks + 5 days and his weight at 37wks +5 days.

managed to find a baby pic of hubby and my goodness I think our little darling looks exactly like the daddy! (hmmmph so much for the pain I endure, yet look so much like daddy!)



Saturday, February 1

CNY 2014

CNY 2014 gathering for my paternal side was held in my parents nest! 

small house with 100 over guests! imagine the amt of cooking my mum needed to handle and also the pack ness of ppl on day 1!

glad everyone enjoyed the food and I have great relatives that are v accommodating and helpful! super love them all! 


this yr seems that with my ox luck and my darling baby's horse luck, I don't seem to win money at the ban luck table yet! nvm...

everyone asking me when due... hmmm hopefully in another 2 weeks then. :) little boy, valentines day ok? 

as the time tickles towards 12mn and passed to 1218am... the Ang family members especially my dearest da bo's family cousins started posting abt how much they miss their dad, and us on the other miss our da bo!!! 

CNY day 2 would be different from that moment last yr... hence from this yr onwards we are gonna gather at my da bo's place and always rmb the times we had with him!

my dearest da Bo, I love and miss u too!