who am i to you?

sometimes i will ask myself who am i to you...how important am i to you?

a friend whom you can always turn to?

a listener to your problems?

an adviser to your bad situation? ( nono i think you dun like this)

a person you call yours?

i think i am a combined of all....

chance upon a friends' blog just now... she had an experience that shows how important she is* to that 'someone'...

i feel for her post, not that i had similar experience but i just feel for it...

she said:

More often, it's the efforts made, shown n proved to someone that it's NOT only beautiful promises u've made out of pure impulse, but you are sincere in carrying out whatever that is out of your mouth.


Girls are suckers for sincerity. Show it to us that it's not all empty talks.What's the point of making mistakes and then apologising afterwards?


I've seen lots of guys like these: Nice words, beautiful promises.. etc.
But how many came true?

after reading i feel for it immediately... its the sincerity we ask for.. how difficult it is? we aint hard to please..

its not that we need you to be always with us, its not we want you to be always pleasing us.... but if u said you would then please show some sincerity.. even if u cant in the end its a basic courtesy to apologise and inform before hand...... not make us suffer in disappointment and anger...