the hot topic in my family now is...

my bro's wedding banquet!!

LOL...
yes the date hasnt been fixed and
my parents n him already have lots of dispute
over the no of tables for the banquet!!

OMG...
the way they argue, its nv ending...

my parents fyi is not gg to invite any frens..
they merely wanted to share the joy with relatives.

my bro fyi is super NIAO(stingy)
he felt that banquet is oni a form of 形式
and wanted a small affair...

given the fact that i have a BIG family
of 106 relatives...
we need at least 11 tables for relatives..
and my bro finds it alot!!

his initial tot was to keep it well within 20 tables.
10 for our side,
10 for his bride's side...

but my dad finds it ridiculous
to not invite all relatives over...
and wad i find ridiculous is...

my bro actually give an order that says
NO...dun bring :

1.ur maids,
(even when the maid is there to take care of baby)

2.ur future hubby or wife,

3. any other ‘闲杂人等’in his sense

to the banquet,
UNLESS, u give big angbao...

i tell him, he might as well dun have the banquet..
why go into so much trouble??!!

and he says:
i dun understand, its btn 2 ppl n yet i have to oblige to
so many ppl's request n discuss it with
so many ppl over our wedding...

totally pissed off with his words..

so i simply ask him to get
his GF to ignore wad her parents'
request are &
off they can do watever they want..

wedding is nv abt 2 persons...
its 2 families...
not as easy...

anyway after all these heated 'discussions'
it all bottom down to MONEY..
its the money issue that is causing the unhappiness...

bro's in laws wanted them to have their own apt,
ROM n wedding at the same time.. which resulted in tight cash flow..

so bro blames dad for not saving money,nv plan for him...

but dad doesnt noe how much bro need
and resulted in miscommunication...

iya...
so u see the power of S11??
*shakes head*

so, work hard n earn more money ba.... =/